CSSM MB Summer Missionary Manual - Cabin Leader 6
BEING A CABIN LEADER (TEACHER)
THE CABIN LEADER-TECHNIQUES IN LEADING
WINNING THE RIGHT TO BE HEARD
This important part of Leading must not be under-emphasized or the effectiveness of solid Leading will be undermined. NO CAMPER WILL OPEN UP TO A CABIN LEADER WHO HAS NOT TAKEN THE TIME TO BE HIS FRIEND. This is winning the right to be heard for we will always value the advice of a friend.
Ways to win the right to be heard:
1) BE A GOOD LISTENER. Find out the interests of the various campers and do what you can to promote their interests.
2) BE AVAILABLE. Let the campers know that you are looking forward to being with them for the week. This availability is best shown in attitude, not mere words.
3) BEAR WITH THE CAMPERS IN THE IDIOSYNCRASIES. Sometimes it is easy for us adults to look "down our noses" at some of the attitudes and interests of the kids. This will hinder out ministry with them.
4) EXERCISE TOUGH LOVE Kids want to look at you as their leader. They expect you to act like a leader and not "one of the gang'. This is sometimes hard for young leaders.
5) BE PRAYERFUL. Only God can prepare the hearts of these dear kids, so pray to Him that He will open the way. Be praying for each camper by name.
6) BE POSITIVE. When you live before these kids, let the love of the Lord Jesus shine brightly through you.
7) BE YOURSELF. Don't try to copy another's personality. Let the Holy Spirit individually direct your abilities to be used to present the Saviour.
8) SHOW genuine love, respect, and interest in the camper